This is a bit un-timely now, but I've waded through my correspondence from the past couple of weeks and found a reference to this article. As someone who's gotten into plenty of arguments over whether games are somehow destroying society/relationships/people, I was delighted; as fellow gamers, I think you might be too.
I also enjoyed a related but much older blog post by Warren Au.
Games destroy the social fabric... of games?
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