Sex...and the discussion of it

chocobojoe · Post by **chocobojoe** » Wed Feb 23, 2005 9:51 pm

Germans?

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Wed Feb 23, 2005 10:04 pm

I think they're rough, and they're kinky... As far as what he was actually getting at, I dunno.

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Wed Feb 23, 2005 10:58 pm

Original Sin wrote:I think they're rough, and they're kinky... As far as what he was actually getting at, I dunno.

But whats so wrong with being kinky and rough?!?

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 7:32 am

Absolutely nothing.

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 10:41 am

OH ok....good! *whew* I was thinking I was german for a second there!

politik · Post by **politik** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 12:18 pm

It's really different here because sex is publicized everywhere in germany and is all uncensored. They're use to it from a young age. But I don't always have time to really go out and see too much of it except for some weekends that I'm not patrolling the road. Sadly, I see a lot of terrible stuff from those in the army or even the marines next to us. But i wont get into any of that stuff. All i can say is being here is like another world then when i was back home. I've learned so much with the time i have been here, and i could never feel stronger about how wrong it is just having sex with a person because of any reason than because you truely love them or marriage. sometimes you can't see how true that is until you've seen the true effects of it...when it is reflected in such a way that it ruins careers and lives...and i've seen so much of it. But when i was back home in the states, the effects werent as reflective, so, it was much harder to see its true damage...it can be ignored or blinding a lot longer when you live a freer life(such as you lucky civilians), but the truth is, no matter who you are and how you live, it will always catch up sometime.

God Of Rock · Post by **God Of Rock** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 4:12 pm

Did somebody say Germans?

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 6:56 pm

Here, we try to tell people that sex is wrong, it's taboo. We hide it away, and try to shut it out of the media for fear that our kids will see it.
There's nothing wrong with sex. Waiting until marriage is a choice, not a government mandate. (yet). Just use discression. If you act like a filthy whore and sleep with everyone, you're probably gonna get something...and then pass it on to other people, and so on, and so forth. If you actually get to know someone, and you genuinely love them, whether you're married or not, you wont' have to worry about that as much.
If you bring up your kids with good morals, and a proper understanding, they'll more than likely use them. You can preach about safe sex all you want, but if a kid doesn't have the moral foundation to merit using it, 'safe' becomes irrelivent.

Ebola Gay · Post by **Ebola Gay** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 8:18 pm

God Of Rock wrote:Did somebody say Germans?

Respect for GOR -1

God Of Rock · Post by **God Of Rock** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 8:41 pm

Meh, after this topic got hijacked to German Fetishes I figured
a little randomness couldnt hurt.

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Thu Feb 24, 2005 10:33 pm

Original Sin wrote:Here, we try to tell people that sex is wrong, it's taboo. We hide it away, and try to shut it out of the media for fear that our kids will see it.
There's nothing wrong with sex. Waiting until marriage is a choice, not a government mandate. (yet). Just use discression. If you act like a filthy whore and sleep with everyone, you're probably gonna get something...and then pass it on to other people, and so on, and so forth. If you actually get to know someone, and you genuinely love them, whether you're married or not, you wont' have to worry about that as much.
If you bring up your kids with good morals, and a proper understanding, they'll more than likely use them. You can preach about safe sex all you want, but if a kid doesn't have the moral foundation to merit using it, 'safe' becomes irrelivent.

I completly agree. Just because Im sexually active, a lot of people like to assume that Im not practicing safe sex. With all my sex partners....call me weird but anyway with all of my sex partners before we have sex we go and get tested together. It doesnt cost a dime, and if it did then $5 at the most. And $5 for peace of mind is nothing to me. Plus I myself, get tested yearly and I plan on getting tested this year eventhough I've been with one person for over year, I dont care I still get tested because I wont take any chances.

politik · Post by **politik** » Fri Feb 25, 2005 1:47 am

well it's just my opinion because i've had to see a lot happen from sex. i've seen a lot of scary crap from it...lately...and some growing up...i guess i've had bad luck having to. it's my reason for not favoring the publicizing and media because they make you think there is nothing wrong with it...it's just something everyone does. some many things in life are just accepted now with people saying, "i dont see what's wrong with it." but it's ok because it's not my life wasting away without me even seeing it. i just hope none of you have to ever experience what i have since ive been here.

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Fri Feb 25, 2005 7:12 am

Of course bad things can happen, aside from VD and pregnancy and all that jive. Sex is as much an emotional act as it is physical, and if you're not careful, you can easily hurt yourself or your partner without really meaning too.

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Fri Feb 25, 2005 11:01 am

Original Sin wrote:Of course bad things can happen, aside from VD and pregnancy and all that jive. Sex is as much an emotional act as it is physical, and if you're not careful, you can easily hurt yourself or your partner without really meaning too.

This is quite true, but I would like to think that I we were/are both emtionally ready. All of the guys that I have been with I have been dating for quite some time. With the exception of one, we've waited a few months before proceeding. Few months is short to some, and long as hell to others, this I know, buuuuut thats just me.

As far as 'making sure' I was emtionally ready, which you really cant have a check list....but I had a plan if the worst of the worst was to happen. I was willing to accept whatever consequences that would be the outcome of me becoming sexually active. When a girl gets pregnant and she cries and wonders why it happened to her....she wasn't ready.

Hoody2006 · Post by **Hoody2006** » Fri Feb 25, 2005 3:07 pm

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