Sex...and the discussion of it

[aspen]

This thread is dedicated to sex. Enough said...

Talk among yourselves...

[Original Sin]

lol...one more controversial topic to go!

[TylerHHS]

Well, I still have not had sex.

I've gotten head, and I've fingered girls before. I really want to eat my current girlfriend out, but she's not ready yet, which is cool with me, I will respect her decision.

[Original Sin]

The whole thing seems overrated to me. Sure, it's all fine and good, but not worth all the hype people put into it.

[Secef]

Hmm... personally, I think sex is quite the emotional investment in a person. Some people may disagree with me there which is fine, it's just what I think. Not that I'm likely to ever be put into the position where I'll have to make this decision, but if I were ever placed into a situation where I could have sex, I most likely would refrain from doing so. The only circumstances I could see myself going ahead and doing it would be if that person were someone I think I could spend the rest of my life with. Crazy, I know, but that's just me.

So... sex good or bad? Umm, I guess I'll say, "good under the right circumstances, bad in copious amounts with different people." Sounds about right for me.

[Mosh_Mosh_Revolution]

Hmm... personally, I think sex is quite the emotional investment in a person.

Yes, I'm sure that this is true.

I think, though, that you also have to be careful in what you say to somebody, too. Telling somebody that you love them can be an even more painful thing to them than sex, if the relationship ends.

Just my thoughts.

[Gumby]

I have had sex before but my current girl and I don't. It's her decision to wait until marriange and I fully respect that, and since i've been dating her, I realize what a good decision that actually is, and I really wish I had waited until I was married. This is the strongest relationship i have ever had in my life, and I partially accredit it to the fact that we aren't hung up on the complications of sex.

good or bad? well sex is definately a good thing because without it the human race does not exist.

[Ryan Dognaux]

I personally have not, while many of my friends have - and most of them regret it. Most of them are still not in the relationshp they were in when they had it.

I think I'll hold onto it for as long as possible, until I know I've found the right one.

Plus, I've heard it's over rated and over hyped anyways.

[God Of Rock]

Sex out of wedlock is a sin.
Im done.

[UberAvonDancer]

Sex out of wedlock is a sin.
Im done.

.....Such an insightful comment.

Moving on...

I've had sex, and I plan on continueing. I dont regret it at all. To me, sex means as much as you want it to. I've had situations in which sex was just a pleasure trip for me and her. Other times it meant something, because I cared about the person I was with. Some people might think that its shallow and a cop out to believe the meaning and value of sex can change. But I can say without lying, save a very small number of times, every time I've had sex I cared deeply about the person I was with. And I've never had sex complicate a relationship. At least not in my eyes. So I say go for it, but be smart. I'm not gonna sleep with any girl I see. And to those who decide to wait, more power to you!

[God Of Rock]

Meh, I didnt feel like getting into a long drawn out debate about
something I've believed in my whole life. Sorry.

[chocobojoe]

There a difference between casual sex, making love, fuckin, and doing porn. That's all I gotta say

[CaseyDidder]

I'm a virgin.

[Potter]

I'm a virgin.

Negative.

[XeRo]

Joe, I think you pretty well summed it up for those of the poor individuals that have not experienced sex yet...Oh, and for those of you who are looking to do so now in an early point in life, let me say that you had better be prepared to have children then...Trust me, I know from experience.